Love, Love, Love

by Holly Harris

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It is the beginning, the end, and everything in between …

It truly is the fundamental reason we are here …

To lift each other up through love and connection

Whereby all involved inflate, stretch and expand

I have had the sense since I was a child …

That there is no real separation between me and another

living, breathing human being …

Same two eyes, same beating heart, same wish to be significant and contribute in a meaningful way

And I believe this is God’s way of working through us, as He shows us, either by example or by contrast,

How we express … or withhold … love from one another

Try this experiment …

Go into a public place, a restaurant or a coffee shop, and see as you sit there if you can feel the connection

between you and every other person there, breathing in, breathing out

Because in truth, nothing really separates you

Which is why as I look at evidence of rampant intolerance, hatred or violence around our communities and

Around the world, I think how simple it is to counter-act this tragedy

Hate really is just FEAR masquerading as something else

Fear of differences, fear of the unknown

Imagine what might happen in this world of ours if LOVE were to replace suspicion, distrust and greed

If business interactions were more about an honest exchange of value and service for remuneration

Truly there are no differences, just differences of opinion

Just imagine …

If there was a mindset community of people devoted to strengthening the individual, the collective, the

world at large …

Whereby these individuals would go out into the world as “Prophets of Peace”, as “Good News Merchants”

Committed to shifting the world just one degree, so that it rotates in a completely new  and balanced way

There is!

And it is called The Million Mind March, co-founded by Joe Schroeder and Diane Hochman

I was on a Members Only call last night … it began at 11 pm est and continued on until after 1 am …

With members of this committed community of thinkers and doers exchanging ideas and speaking “word”

It is a profoundly wonderful place to gather …

And I was reminded for the millionth time how critically important it is for all of us to surround ourselves with

People who LIFT us up, who strengthen and expand us through respectful challenge and spirited

discourse

Just imagine if the whole world operated that way …

This planet could very well be a very different place

As Mahatma Ghandi said “Be the change you want to see in the world.”

It truly starts in your own heart.

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I had an extraordinary experience a couple of weeks ago …

I wasn’t sure what to expect…

Though I knew from participating in previous on-line

seminars and presentations that Michael Bernoff of the

Human Communications Institute consistently

OVERDELIVERS...

I wasn’t sure what the impact of a live, three-day intensive

would be …

In all actuality …

I did not expect such a cataclysmic shift

There is something about sequestering yourself away from your “normal” life for a specific period of time …

Giving yourself the gift of TIME for reflection, introspection, a “perspective-overhaul”

With other individuals equally committed to showing up in their lives to the best of their ability

One learns some powerful skills in the process …

It may  ostensibly have been a self-development seminar …

Delving into, among other things,  the psychology of sales from a communication standpoint …

But here is the naked truth …

It was way, way beyond that …

It was more an opportunity to understand what it fundamentally means to be human

And what it means to communicate on a higher level …

We human be-ings are social animals …

We live to connect with one another …

To move beyond the power plays, the manipulations, the greed-driven excesses …

And find a truer, more purposeful form of communication which benefits all participants involved …

A communication that enriches lives and lifts spirits in the process …

As each person offers their unique gifts, talents and skills to the human collective …

This is the way of the New Economy

Of course for some it is easier to sit on the sidelines …

Complaining

Resisting

Arguing in defense of ways that no longer work, that no longer serve the greater good …

But for those individuals who CHOOSE SELF-DEVELOPMENT

Who comprehend that it is a privilege to be chosen to lead and to serve …

And that privilege is EARNED through dedicated study and accountability …

These individuals GET that to help others understand and navigate their way

through a changed landscape is an honor …

These leaders understand that once the door of expansion has been opened …

One can never go back to those old ways of thinking …

As Oliver Wendell Holmes so wisely proclaimed …

“A mind that is stretched by a new experience can never go back to its old dimensions”.

Indeed!


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